Continuing to receive a family member’s mail after they’ve passed away can be frustrating and distressing.
Fortunately, there are a few simple steps you can take to stop mail delivery for a deceased person.
In this guide, we’ll explain 6 quick steps for stopping regular mail as well as stopping junk mail after death.
The first step may sound a little counterintuitive. But, in order to stop mail after a death, you need to get on top of the type of mail that is being sent.
Therefore, if the deceased person lived at an address different from yours and you’re the executor of their estate, then forwarding their mail to your address is the easiest way to sort through this.
To forward the mail, this is what you need to do:
The cost of forwarding mail depends on the service you choose. As of June 2022, regular mail forwarding costs a one-time fee of just $1.05. Premium forwarding costs a one-time fee of $21.90, plus an additional $21.90 for each week of service. With either service you can forward the mail up to one year.
The executor is legally authorized to open, read, and stop mail on the behalf of the deceased person. Therefore, you can start to sort through the mail and return to the sender.
However, keep in mind that this only affects things sent through USPS. Packages and parcels that are shipped with FedEx or UPS won’t be forwarded.
Once you’re in receipt of the deceased person’s mail, you can use the free “return to sender” service.
This is how you do it:
However, this might become frustrating over time if the mail continues and therefore it’s better to contact the executor directly to discuss forwarding the mail.
An effective way to reduce junk mail being sent to a deceased person is by adding their details to the Do Not Contact list provided by the Direct Marketing Association (DMA). The DMA is a trade body that many direct marketers and advertisers belong to. By adding a name to the DDNC list, advertisers that are members of the DMA will stop sending unsolicited mail.
The process is simple and free of charge. All you need to do is to fill out a form on the DMA website. Here’s a rundown of the process:
1. Go to the website https://www.ims-dm.com/cgi/ddnc.php
2. Fill out your information and the information of the deceased
3. Verify CAPTCHA
4. Submit the form
Once you submit the form, the updated Do Not Contact list will be shared with DMA members each month. Therefore, once a month has passed, you should start to see a decrease in promotional mail and other junk mail.
However, keep in mind that this will only stop mail from organizations who are members of the DMA. You’ll likely also need to complete the other steps listed in this guide when it comes to stopping junk mail after death.
For more information on stopping unwanted mail, read our complete guide on how to stop junk mail.
You’ll need to contact senders directly to stop junk mail for a deceased person from organizations that aren’t members of the DMA.
In most cases you can do this by contacting the company directly via phone or email. For subscriptions such as magazines or membership clubs, it’s important to contact these organizations as soon as possible in order to cancel billing.
Calling is usually a faster way to move things forward compared to email. But ensure you request proof to be sent to you about the termination of the subscription.
As a final step, if you set up mail forwarding to your address, you can request that the Post Office stops this once probate is complete. However, this can only be requested once everything has been completed and the estate has been closed.
The process is straightforward:
This step will stop the mail entirely. Therefore, you should wait until all matters have been completed.
Lastly, you may still be receiving mail for a deceased loved one if their personal details are on data broker platforms. And what’s more, you may start receiving more mail in the future.
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The sooner you complete the above steps, the sooner you’ll stop mail delivery for a deceased person.
One thing to bear in mind though, it’s a federal offense to open and read someone else’s mail. So unless you’re an executor of the deceased person’s estate, do not open their mail.
However, even if you’re not an executor, you can still complete many of the above steps on how to stop getting mail for a deceased person.
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